Head... 'Til You're Burnin' Up!!!

Lawd hammercy. I was just over at my fave guilty pleasure
C&D and the topic came around to blowjobs. Someone (I believe it was JaySpice's ole horny ass) went over to Xtube and found a video of supahead doing her thing, and the conversation quickly turned to oral sex. Now Mz Nikki had quite a bit of experience with "Executives" so here I am on this gloomy ass day blogging about them. Someone asked me to write a tutorial about them, so here goes. By the way, this is long and involved, so don't say I ain't warned you.

1. Make sure you have adequate preparation. This includes warming yourself up by doing whatever it is that makes you feel sessy. Daydreamin' about all the freaky shit I wanna do to Reggie Bush and Darren Sharper during that 3some works for me.

2. Assemble all of your tools. I always recommend a nice silicon based lube to keep the friction to a minimum, but good old fashioned spit works well too. Fruit, jellies, flavored lube, whipped cream & a towel for him to lie on are also nice additions. Non lubricated condoms are a must if this is new divk!!! Just make sure you get the super sheer ones. I recommend Trojan Non Lubricated Condominiums

3. Work your man into a frenzy but playing to his particular weakness. If you've been with your man for awhile, you know what I'm speakin' about, so do yo thang! My dealer likes to be told in no uncertain terms just what it is I'm about to do, so I can talk dirtier than any porn star. Play around with yours and see what works for you.

4. Let the games begin. This one is a couple of paragraphs long, so hold on tight!

Begin by kissing your man. Kissing is a artform and should be used to convey the message: "You are under my control now". Start working your way down, making pit stops at his ears, base of his neck, his nipples (his are just as sensitive as yours) and the belly button.

Squirt a nice amount of your prefered lube onto your hands and warm it thoroughly (I usually use a flavored one for "Executives"). Lots of women complain of arm cramps during this part, but lots of lubrication means less friction, which means your muscles don't have to work as hard to get the same reaction. Grasp his penis firmly, but not too tight, stroking it lovingly like the jewel it is. Make sure you look like you're enjoying yourself or he's gonna know you ain't feelin' it!

Stroke him a few times just to get the blood flowing, licking around the head just to tease him a bit. Maintain eye contact and for goodness sake, smile! Now, slip his almost hardened penis into your mouth, sealing your lips around it to create an airtight lock. Try sealing your tongue against the back of your throat, sucking the air out of your cheeks. When it feels like your face is concaving, you're where you wanna be, but pay attention to any signals from your man that it's too tight or it hurts. Nine times out of ten you're fine, but pay attention to his cues just in case.

Start slow: you don't want to hurt him and you damn sho don't wanna hurt yourself if you're not used to giving head. Make sure you keep one hand at the base of his penis too. This serves as a barrier should he get overzealous in his attempts to face fuvk you (You can't go any farther down than your hand, so no choking), and also allows for fondling his balls (always a good thing). A rolling motion of the head is good, and you can use your tongue to tease the underside of his head and along the underside of his penis. Moaning produces a vibration that feels good too, so moan as often as it feels good to you.

You need to be able to read your man pretty well to know when to speed up, but handy rule of thumb: when he starts to thrust, he's ready for more. Now this is the fun part. Bring your other hand up, wrapping it around the penis too and twist both hands in opposing directions as you increase your speed and suction. If done correctly, you will have his ass eatin' out of the palm of your hand! Oh, one more thing. Make sure you pull off, letting the penis "pop" out of your mouth, then jump right back onto it like a starvin' negro at a 7 course banquet! He'll be like Mr. Marcus punk azz in no time flat!

Now, some of you might notice that my technique is similar in many aspects to Carrine's, and that is true. I learned my suckie suckie from a professional and a gay male, so... yeah! Anyway, practice, practice, practice!!! You can do it on a toy until you feel comfortable, or you can do it on your man. I suggest doing it on your man because after all, it is his penis you're pleasuring, so go with the flow.

That's all for now, ladies and gents. Have fun, be safe and most of all remember: it's all in the wrists!

Addition Ladies, the testicles are not redheaded stepchildren! Sucking on them gently (the key being gently) is key to giving good head. This is most easily done by first licking, then carefully taking first one, then the other into your mouth and teasing them with your tongue. If your man is adventurous, you might want to try feeling for his prostate too, but that's another lesson! (Thanks to Q for reminding me about this part!!!)